Revealed: 5 Reasons Why Women Fake Orgasms!
We exist in a results-hungry world where our achievements are measured in terms of how we reached our goals. If we didn’t reach them, someone gets mad, someone gets blamed (you) and someone gets disappointed.
Achieving female orgasm is the same. Sometimes you meet women who can climax easily, and you may or may not attribute it to how well you made her. She could claim that she did it herself.
No matter who gets the credit, the important thing is that it happened. You both made it happen, one way or another (though, in your mind, you know that YOU made it happen. Enough said).
In a world where achievements and egos go hand in hand, how does a guy who can’t make his girlfriend reach orgasm feel? [Read Female Orgasm 101; Preparation, Building & Delivering it]
Here are Some of the Reasons Why Women Fake:
So That You Won’t Feel Bad
There are some men who don’t care if a girl climaxes or not, but there are more men who do. A girl’s orgasm is an affirmation of how well these men perform and it becomes a ‘pride’ thing. There’s also that nagging doubt in a man’s mind that if he can’t satisfy her, she will leave.
A woman, being intuitive enough to know these things, will sense that her orgasm is sometimes more important to the guy than to her. So, she fakes. [Read Female Pleasure 50 Creative Naughty Sex Moves to Thrill Her]
So That She Won’t Feel Bad
With all the stories she hears from her friends about how good sex is, especially when a girl orgasms twice, thrice, four times, five times….ten times! Oh yesss yesss!!
She might feel compelled to tattle about how great sex is for her too, how she came TWELVE times with her boyfriend. But she didn’t and she knows it. Yet she makes you believe she did, and she tells you that she did. But, she didn’t. [Read Crack Her Code; The Art and Craft of Sexually Driving Her Wild In Bed]
Because It’s How It’s Supposed To End
Blame it on porn or on yourself, but answering “no” when you ask her “was it good for you too?” would be just wrong. You shared a great cuddle after sex, and the man she loves wears a smile on his face as he drifts off to sleep. He whispers her name as he feels her move away to pee.
So, who cares if she feels like there’s something missing from the whole sex thing? She’s in love, and her man is so happy with her. That’s enough, right? [Read Thrusting Into her Pussy | Switching Penis Angle of Entry, Stroke, Rhythm & Positioning]
She Doesn’t Want To Look Ugly
Believe it or not, there are women who fake because of vanity. She probably saw her face in the mirror while she was really cumming and she was horrified that she looked like someone in a bad Exorcist audition while she was having the big O. And, was that pig-like grunting she heard herself utter while she was having her orgasm?
No, it just won’t do. She fakes because she wants her man to see her as a diva while she cums, with a seductive smile on her lips and moaning so artfully. Besides, she knows how to make herself cum anyway. She can do it when you’re asleep. [Read Take Me Right Here; Making Your Woman Do Anything in Bed]
She Just Feels Like Faking
There are women who feel sex is really overrated, and if she doesn’t climax this time, she won’t waste her energy and nap time stressing over it. She didn’t cum for real, but if it’s important to you, she fakes. No big deal.
In the end, faking an orgasm goes against the idea of being honest in a relationship. Yes, in the short term, a woman who fakes an orgasm avoids any pains of disappointment and awkward moments.
But in the end, it will be a lot tougher to experience a real orgasm, simply because the “problem” (not being able to reach orgasm through sex) is not being addressed.
Communication and education are the keys to unlocking the female orgasm.