5 Techniques for Being Dominant in the Bedroom
Being dominant encompasses a wide range of experiences, and you and your partner can explore any avenue of pleasure you prefer. Here are some standard practices that you can use in the bedroom to take charge: 1. Permission: Two key tensions at play during most dominant and submissive sexual experiences are permission and punishment. During this type of session, the sub must ask permission to perform certain activities—for instance, performing oral sex or orgasming—and when they act outside of the dominant partner’s rules, they receive a requisite punishment. When starting as the dom, consider setting up a few sexy rules (for instance, choosing the sex positions or what the sub is allowed to wear) and punishments. Common punishments include spanking, edging or chastity, and bondage. 2. Spanking and impact play: Erotic spanking is a type of impact play in which the dom uses their hands, a whip, paddle, or crop to spank parts of the sub’s body for consensual and mutual sexual p...